Dude. My man. Fella. Mate.
If you wanted a more perfect example of the base-level entitlement that people are talking about when they say “Nice Guys are actually Not Good or Nice at all” the only way to do it better would have been to start calling me names because I wasn’t answering you.
But hey, you did not do that thing, anon. So there’s hope for you yet.
How not to be a “Nice Guy”? Well: don’t be entitled, for one, and be interesting, for two. Those should go a long way to helping.